In sickness and in health. Friday, January 18, 20138:08 PM / top
I'm sad. I'm video calling with my boyfriend and he's sick. He's been asleep for the past few hours. His sister just came in and started taking care of him. You don't know how badly I want to take care of him. I want to be the one who changes the towel on his head. I'd rather be with him over there risking my health to make him feel better. I wish I could just go there. I would give anything to be his caregiver, I want him to be better, because I know thats all he wants. I want to make him medicine, give him crackers and feed him soup. It hurts knowing that I want to be the one he needs. I want him to know he can count on me when he's sick. I want to think that he's my forever, and during "forever" we're obviously gonna get sick once in a while. I want to be needed by him.
Peace,Love & Harmony, arjaaah♥
Three words. Saturday, January 5, 201310:39 PM / top
In a relationship, there is a requirement of 3 things. Trust, Love and Sacrifice.
Trust always has to be obtained at the beginning, because what is love without trust? nothing. Trust is the foundation of the Love that is bestowed upon the couple and it moulds the heart, and prepares it for the future "Love" has in store.
Once the love between the two has been established, everything will aways seem amazing, also called the "honeymoon" where all seems right in the world, nothing could go wrong and no one can ruin your mood. That is one of the highest type of love that can be acquired at this stage.
There will always be times when countless dissentions occur. One may have to swallow their pride to make the other one win, one may also try to "buy" their love back with gifts that represent how apologetic they may be. But either way, sacrifice is the only way to withstand the ups and downs of relationships. Sacrifice is a two way street. If the other does not reciprocate the actions the balance of the relationship is diminished.
Just remember these three things, and there will always be a light in even the darkest places.
" If there is ever a tomorrow when we are not together
there is something you must always remember;
you are braver than you believe,stronger than you seem
and smarter than you think, but most important of all, even if we are apart, I’ll always be with you."